‘Stranger-Danger’ - Help your dog get over his fear of strangers

Everyone dreams their dog will react to people with warmth and friendliness. But some dogs have extreme fear of strangers. When they meet someone new they cower, tremble, and try to hide. Even if your dog is excessively fearful around strangers, have some hope - there are ways in which you can help your dog manage his fears with patience, reassurance and consistency. The first step is to examine the reasons behind your dog’s fears.

The Reason For The Fear

There are several reasons why your dog might be scared of new people: 

• Some dogs are genetically predisposed to being fearful. A shy or timid dog is more likely to have an offspring who is fearful.
• If a puppy has not had adequate opportunity to socialize, there are chances of him being fearful around strangers. 
• Dogs that have had a history of abuse may also be afraid of strangers.

It is important to understand the reason for your dog’s fear as this will help you manage it more effectively. It will also help you develop a treatment or training program that can help your dog overcome his fears and anxieties.

Easing the Fear

A fearful dog can react unpredictably. Some dogs when scared may simply cower in a corner whereas others might growl or snap. It’s important to manage a dog's fear of strangers very carefully. Teaching a dog not to be afraid usually takes lots of time and consistent training.

It would be helpful to your dog to have a place in the house where your pet can retreat to when he is unsettled, especially when you have guests over. This space can provide him rest, comfort and security at a time when he is most anxious.

In the case of an anxious dog, you might often expect the dog to react fearfully toward strangers. As a result you might tense up or tighten your hold on its leash, however, this reinforces his anxiety. Try to stay friendly, relaxed, and upbeat when you and your dog meet new people. 

Preparing Visitors

It is best to prepare your guests in advance about your dog’s anxiety. New visitors should avoid petting or making eye contact with the dog as this can be intimidating. The best strategy is to ignore the dog entirely.  

In order to make your dog more comfortable with visitors, your visitor could gently toss some treats on the floor close to your dog. If done consistently, this may help your fearful dog slowly begin to associate strangers with rewards.

Let your dog decide when to approach your visitor — never force or rush this! Once your dog does approach, the visitor should continue to avoid eye contact and make slow, non-threatening movements. Some dogs may warm up sooner and allow petting and handling, or some may need several visits to warm up to a new person. It’s important to reward your dog for a peaceful interaction every time so they come to associate meetings with positive rewards.

Keeping the situation safe

If your dog is uncomfortable, never force him to be petted or handled by a stranger. If a dog is pushed too far out of its comfort zone and not allowed to get away, it may resort to biting. Dogs that are afraid or uncomfortable may bite out of fear. It is important that you anticipate your dog’s comfort level and reaction so that everyone stays safe around your dog.

Accept and love your dog 

While you might be able to help your dog alleviate his fears to some extent, there are some dogs that may never entirely be comfortable around strangers. Do not force your fearful dog to meet people/other pets if he does not want to, as this can sometimes lead to biting or aggressive behavior. If the dog’s anxiety is too high, you could consult a certified dog behaviorist. 

Most importantly, your dog needs your love and unconditional support to overcome his fears. You are his constant and loving companion as he navigates these fearful situations. So stay relaxed and be supportive as your dog learns to adjust in uncomfortable situations.